Monday, January 28, 2019


Today was our orphanage visit. 
Although it was difficult, she was a champ. Her favorite nanny waited around for us to arrive, and they both had some tears, but the nanny was awesome, she wiped Grace tears and told her how excited she was for her. she is older, and obviously well experienced and knew exactly what to say to Grace. 

Grace (who would rather me call her Yuling) which is fine by me, led us through the orphanage, to different rooms. Saying goodbye and introducing me. A couple of times she had a bit of tears, depending on who she saw, but nothing too bad.
By the time we were back down stairs and leaving, she was ready to go.. Then she suddenly ran back to her classroom, and we all thought.. Oh oh... But nope. She was running back to take more pictures of the whole classroom as she was yelling good bye. Lol then all the kids once again started grabbing her and hugging her and she started to get teary again. So we got her and walked off holding hands, as the kids yelled good bye..some even hanging out the windows. Lol
It was a very good day.
The biggest problem was that she gets terribly car sick.. Within minutes of driving.
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Any advice? I'm dreading the plane ride already.




She is now a Dolan. She signed the papers agreeing to be adopted by us. I have to be completely honest.. I was worried. She loved being with me, and wanted to come home with me, and understood family, and all her sisters and brother.. But she has a few favored nannies and one favorite in particular that she is worried about missing. And also her friends, but she understood they will be all going to a family soon too, so that made it easier. But those favorite nannies really weigh heavy on her heart.
When we looked through her school books today I found some scrap papers hidden in the pockets box a small book.. Along with a small three fold page with piles of cell phone numbers.. This was tucked away, hidden in her things.
Our guide told us that tomorrow we are going to go super early, just to see her very favorite nanny who will be just finishing the night shift. She said we will tour the orphanage and visit the kids quickly.. She suggested we not stay long as she is so attached to her nannies, that this will be very hard on her. She said she is going to make sure the nannies tell her they are happy for her, and that it is OK for her to go with me.
I always recommend that our First Hugs families go back and visit the orphanage. It is so important for the children to say goodbye and have closure. But I also understand just how difficult this is. This is so much for a little girls heart.



November 17th, 2014

Look who I have!!!    

Just leaving civil affairs with a very little girl and a happy mommy.






Going to meet Grace in one hour.  
Next post will be pictures. 
Our guide has said that she had met her, and that she knows I am coming today. When asked in July if she wanted a family, Grace replied, I ask for one everyday. 
No more asking... Cause I'm on my way.




On our way to Grace's province..
November 16th, 2014.

6am.. Nothing like a large tub of coffee!  There were no take out glasses, but worries I will figure this out!   Starbucks Venti is just a baby compared to this sucker!


Grace's Gotcha Day

I thought I would try to update my blog by going through google photos month by month..  I have 4 years to catch up on..  this is going to take a while..
Everything is now on Facebook, but I want to make my blog into a book - so I am updating!!

November 14th, 2014

Well, I'm packed (I think)! I'm ready (I think)! The house is left in capable hands (I think not) and the kids appointments, schedules, competitions, teacher meetings are all scheduled, and taken care of (NOT)!!  
But there isn't much I can do about it now. Leaving in 45 mins for the airport on my way to get a very special little girl.  
Soon to be a much loved daughter and sister - an orphan no more!